hari ini adalah hari pertama dalam my adult life i do blogging. dah baca banyak blog orang, teringin jugak nak ada blog sendiri untuk tatapan sendiri di hari tua (kalau ada umur).
so what can i say, maybe i'll start dengan my family background. i happily married to my beautiful wife, norhayati sukeni and with her i have 3 wonderful, healthy kids natasha, adam and danial. they are born in year 2000, 2001 and 2003 respectively. i came from a big family of six but now only 5 cause my eldest abang pass away way back in 2002. his name is mohd hayat. i will describe him in future blog cause he is a person i look up as arole model in my life and he is a person i respect most after both of my parents.
my blog is simple, LIFE IS SHORT SO TREASURE YOUR LOVED ONES.
you know, life is really short, you never know when you will be invited by ALLAH, it could be now, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, next decade...... nobody knows when but one thing for sure when day pass everyday, your life with your loved just get shorter by a day too.
somethings i dont understand why people fight over petty things, or even in family, u just need to forgive and forget. maybe it is easier said than done, but sometimes you really need to throw away your big egos to do that.
u know just 2 days ago, my wife cousin's husband, passed away suddenly. his cause of death stated in his death certificate something like cardiorespiratory failure. the story goes like he was just finish performing his maghrib prayer's and was playing around with his 2 year old daughter, the next thing was he collasped at the sofa, he tried to get up again, but he collasped again this time round he hit his head against the coffee table hard resulting his face smash badly with blood oozing out. His another relative was nearby and responded to him within 7 minutes after his collasped and performed CPR on him. he managed to get a weak pulse adn by then he is in and out of coma. the ambulance was called but unfortunately he died on the way to the nearby hospital. he was 39 years old. may ALLAH bless his soul and his unfortunate family. he left behind his 37 years old wife, his 2 sons maybe around 11 to 12 years old and his toddler beautiful 2 years old daughter.
you see, tragic events like these makes one wonder that it could happen to anyone. He's 39, he did not smoke, do drugs, nor he drinks alcohol and seems to be in the best condition of his life. he's not fat either nor he had a history of any illness. but he just went off in the most bizzard way. he collasped and died! I was present during his funeral, and at the cemetery, even me who really can control my sentimental emotions, just let loose my tears when i see his wife and family weeping at the side of his grave. it is just too much for me to handle, just too much. it could be me or it could be anybody. really sad, really really sad.
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